Frustration.......

Well we are officially under the 20 day mark!

Holy Cow!

I will say one thing, people still amaze me daily in both and good ways.

Some people don't do their part, others go above and beyond.

As of today I still have the following loose ends to tie up:

• Figuring out the procession and what to put on wedding programs
• Designing and printing programs
• Marriage licence (getting that tomorrow)
• Two more meetings with the Pastor (one today, one in a week)
• Final Floral meeting (next week)
• Final Photography meeting (Friday)
• Final Mavris meeting (tomorrow)
• Final DJ meeting (still trying to nail that down)
• Final Cake meeting (Friday)
• Need a guest book for the ceremony site (We have a cool silver engraveable frame for the reception)
• Need a toss garter (I already have my keep)
• Something borrowed (looking to my Aunt to find me something of my Grandmother's to have in my bouquet)
• Card box (going to make that one)
• Finish up gifts for wedding party and rehearsal dinner guests
• Final fittings (tomorrow)
• Decide when in the world we are going to make the carmel apples!

Ok so I thought I just had a few things left to do... Guess I was wrong.

My list may be easy to accomplish, but my list of things to make other people do seems to be growing every day. It seems like lately if I don't tell someone to do their part, they just don't even think about it.

I mean everyone involved in the wedding was asked, and could have said no. So I guess I don't feel like it is the end of the world for them to get fitted or book a room. Apparently that makes me the devil.

When it comes down to it I feel like this wedding really has forced me to take off my rose-colored glasses and realize that some people just aren't who I thought they were.

Like I said before, then there are others that have gone above and beyond, and have really been there for me.

I just can't wait until next week. By then my final meetings will be over, monies will be paid, and anyone quitting the wedding will have officially resigned. It will just be time to focus on being ready for the big day.

I am comforted by the fact that I am marrying my best friend, the man I love, and the person that has been soooooo supportive and awesome these last few weeks. I came home today and he had done all the laundry from the weekend, among other things. Just reminds me why I love him!

Well off to go to meetings and get things done.... Hopefully my next update will be a little less stressed!